Thread:Jamie141/@comment-23785492-20150925031844/@comment-23785492-20150926035156

TheInfected wrote: Jamie, dude, you don't need to apologize for anything. Thank you for trusting us with this horrible, personal news. But, man, if you want to stop writing and chat for right now then please do. Do whatever you want, because this is horrible. I don't know what it's like to loose a mother, but I do know the pain of losing a parent-like guardian, and I know how it feels. Any type of mood swing is completely understandable, but just know that holding in any of those type of feelings can be bad for you, mentally and physically. If you feel the need to talk, don't even hesistate because there are people (on wiki and irl) who care for you, don't forget that.

Death is such a horrible thing to experience, but it's also is what can make life so beautiful. Don't think about how you lost her, but how you were able to share a life with her. Think of all those times you guys had pleasent times, all the great things you guys did, and how you loved each other. Yes, thinking about this can be depressing, but instead appreciate how you were able to experience life with each other, both of you making life for the other better. Be happy that you were able to meet her and how she touched your life (and you yours). Life and Death can be painful, but if you just look at it from different prespectives, it really is beautiful. Use the lessons she taught you and touch other lives the same way she touched yours.

I'm very sorry for your loss, Jamie. Just remember what I said, and please take care of yourself. Don''t worry 'bout us, mourn your loss and remember your life with her. You're a great dude, Jamie, don't forget that. I hope that in due time you (and your family) will be okay.

Good luck Jamie, and once again I'm very sorry, man. I'll be praying for you and your family <3

I didn't know you would be so wise Danny <3 but thank you so much for your words and I do really get what you mean, focusing on the good times does help greatly, its like with my nan, she said her goodbyes but as bad as she felt she couldn't stay long because she wanted to remember mum as she was and not what happened to her but yeah, thank you again Danny, I really appreciate the support that you have sent to me. <3