User blog comment:TWDFan630/Survival of the Fittest Possible Deaths/@comment-5801603-20150413181032

Ok, I know this isn't really my place or anything, but Nathan, I'd like to try and give you some advice so you can at least try to get along better with people here.


 * 1) Stop overreacting. You go straight to the admins over the slightest disagreement. I thought I said this before, so I guess I'm repeating myself, but tattling won't get you any friends, and I'm pretty sure KP, Fitz, Hallow, Danny, whoever will get pretty sick of it soon. And of course, this blog. The thing that happened wasn't even that big, this was totally unnecessary.
 * 2) Think before you say something. That whole thing with solar, (the "huge fight") was pretty much caused by you overreacting (^) to a joke. You know the tone of UFSW, we're (can I say we're, guys?) a friendly bunch and a lot of the times, we joke around. So you need to think twice and say to yourself, "can this be taken as a joke?" Instead of going "REPORTING YOU TO WHOEVER!!" or just starting an argument with them. It's not doing you any favours.
 * 3) Try. You've come back from your ban, and of course, there's a little bad blood between people here. You may claim you've changed, you apologise, you did something wrong, yeah, you can say that til the sun goes down, but you need to actually show that you've changed, show that you've improved your behaviour, in order to try and build up good relations with the people here; because personally, all Im seeing is the exact same Nathan, but without the sockpuppets (and I'm not even entirely certain on that).
 * 4) Cut down on the rubbish. Perhaps rubbish is a harsh word, but you know what I mean. Look how many stories you have; or how many you're planning. It's way too much for any writer to keep up with let alone a reader. Maybe if you spent more time on one story, then the quality would improve significantly and you'd get more readers. People would be able to keep track. Plus, Ive seen your blog posts, and for the most part they're unnecessary. Good news.. For you? Well if you admit that the good news is just for you, then why do we need to know? Maybe give it a passing mention in chat. If the convos died down; not some full blown blog post.
 * 5) And lastly, expect to have to give a little. This links in with the third point because you need to show the respect to everyone here, in order to get some back. And that doesn't mean just randomly joining in to a conversation with "lol". Because that's a little tedious and doesn't really add anything. And that doesn't mean going to the admins all the time either. I guess what I'm trying to say is, be nicer to people, be funny, be friendly, and maybe we'll listen.

I've said what I needed to say, and there is no nice way of saying some things. Take what you will from this, Nathan.